Long Distance Relationships

Generally, when we think of long-distance relationships, we think of those of the romantic type. I moved from almost one end of the country to the other nine years ago, at the time expecting to move back East. One Master’s degree and a husband later, and I am still in Alberta. I am happy with my life here; however, this means I have many long-distance relationships. 

Since my first nephew was born in Newfoundland recently, and the pandemic will delay me travelling to meet him, I have been reflecting on this more. Trying to stay connected and share such momentous experiences is challenging when you are faced with distance and different time zones. All of my close family members are back in Newfoundland, I’ve missed weddings, births, retirements and many birthdays. Additionally, I have numerous close friends across the country, whether it be childhood friends or those from my university days. 

I consider myself lucky to live in an age where there is an abundance of technology to stay connected. However, there still needs to be the effort and creativity to maintain fulfilling and special relationships. COVID has led to an increase in virtual meetups and dates, everyone connecting online more often than usual. It’s in part necessity, but I have also found that I am also scheduling more virtual time than usual with people with whom I have these long-distance relationships. My theory is that it is merely because we are all home and available more often, but whatever it is; I am happy with it. Even though I can’t wait to get back to “normal” life, I also find myself hoping that these more regular virtual get together continue. 

This time has highlighted for me the joy and fulfillment I get out of connecting with these people in my life. I’ve been reminded of the effort that needs to be made in order to be connected and let people know that they are important to me. I know that I will have to be creative to make sure that the people I love from a distance know how special they are to me and that they receive the care and attention they deserve from me.

May 17, 2020